Welcome! This site provides you with tools and information that can help you make great relationship decisions – whether you’re working on a current relationship or entering into something new. In addition to the two books we have available, we also have an easy quiz that helps determine the overall health of your relationship, recommended reading for specific relationship problem areas, and links to books that provide information on particularly troublesome personalities in romantic relationships.

Much of this information is well known to therapists and counselors, and it is now available to you through this site for application by you to your life. Knowledge is power, and this site aims to empower men and women in making great decisions about long-term relationship partners.

The Books

Are you having trouble in your dating relationships? Are you feeling not listened to, valued or cared about? Are there elements of verbal or emotional abuse floating around? Is everything always about your partner?

Wouldn’t it be nice to find out early on in the relationship whether it’s a relationship you want to invest in or not? You can. With this quick guide assessment you can find out if your partner is likely to be a person who is “unable to love.”

These quick guides will:

  • Pinpoint specific behaviors and traits of men and women who cannot love.
  • Help you to rate them on a numerical scale.
  • Tell you what your answers most likely mean.
  • Help you to rapidly identify the types of men or women you don’t want to waste your time on.
  • Guide you to find the ones that are worth your time and attention.

With Men Who Can’t Love and Women Who Can’t Love you will have an assessment tool that can help you to find a better relationship by avoiding a bad one. Relationships are tough enough without the added stress of trying to build one with a person who is “unable to love.”

Men Who Can’t Love

A Woman’s Guide to the Early Warning Signs of Male Narcissism (Quick Guide to Narcissism Book 1)

Women Who Can’t Love

A Man’s Guide to the Early Warning Signs of Female Narcissism (Quick Guide to Narcissism Book 2)

The Quiz

Learn more about your relationship through this short quiz.

This quiz was designed to help you rate the overall health of your current relationship. Please consider each question carefully and answer thoughtfully and as accurately as possible. It’s good to know where your relationship stands on a scale of functionality. After taking the quiz, you’ll see a list of recommended books selected to help you make improvements based on the the health of your current relationship.

Sherry Chenell

About the Author

Sherry Chenell lives on a farm in Oregon. She has two Master’s decrees in Nursing, an MBA and a Master’s in Psychology. She has been a practicing therapist for 30-years, counseling both individuals and couples.

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The fine print

The information in this website is intended to help women and men identify dangerous and potentially dangerous relationships.  This website and the information contained herein are for general information purposes only.

Every effort has been made to provide accurate and dependable information.  Neither the publisher nor the author makes any representation or warranty regarding the completeness, accuracy, or reliability of the information.  Any reliance placed by the reader or any other individual on this website or the information contained herein is at such person’s own risk.

The contents of this website have been compiled through professional research and in consultation with other professionals.  However, the reader should be aware that many professionals in the field have differing opinions, and opinions which may differ from the author’s.

This website’s publisher, author, webmaster, editor(s), as well as any individuals quoted on this website, shall not be held liable or responsible for any error, omission, professional disagreement, or dated material contained herein.  The publisher, author, and any other individual or organization associated with this website shall not be liable for any outcome of applying the information in this website, whether such application is in a program of self-care, under the care of a licensed professional, or under any other circumstances whatsoever.

If you have questions about the information contained in this website, or the application of the same, consult a licensed therapist or similar professional.  If you are in a violent or potentially violent relationship, please call a domestic abuse hotline as soon as possible.